My bf said he wants me to put make up on cuz he feel physically attracted when i do?

It sounds like he's more interested in your body than a relationship. Using words like hot, horny, and baby, referring to you in the third person, talking about your body more than your mind, when you're not married, that's not respectful. It tells me he's a player. You shouldn't have to make him "crazy horny" especially after he left you and is trying to win you back. That's not trying to win you back. That's the thing someone says who believes he's doing you a favor by wanting to take you back. If a man doesn't treat you like your affections are a privilege and an honor, he will not honor you in marriage or in whatever type of relationship you choose to pursue. He may seem very sweet at other times but often "playas" do. Maybe he's only a part time player, swayed by whatever, but do you really want a part-time relationship? After trust is lost it needs to be earned back. If he can't or won't show you that he is a different person, and I don't mean over a period of a couple of weeks, I mean over a period of months or more, without expecting anything from you, then he's not the sort of person that you can trust.